Nk’uko ubushakashatsi bubitangaza, aba bagore bavuga ko bibafasha kugira ubwisanzure mu buzima bwabo bwa buri munsi, kuba bafite inshingano nke, ndetse no kugira umubano mwiza n’abandi bantu bo mu buzima bwabo bwa hafi. Benshi muri bo bumva bafite amahirwe yo kwita ku byifuzo byabo bwite no kubaho uko bifuza, bitandukanye n’icyo imyumvire ya kera yabahatiye kwemera ko ibyishimo nyakuri bishingira ku gushaka no kubyara.
Professor Dolan yavuze ko ibi bigaragaza ko hakenewe impinduka mu mitekerereze ya sosiyete, cyane cyane ku bijyanye n’imyumvire y’uko umugore utashatse cyangwa utabyaye aba atarageza ku byishimo nyabyo. Abagore benshi batashatse kandi batabyaye ni bo bagaragaza ibyishimo byinshi n’ubuzima buzira umuze.
Ibi bisubiza inyuma igitekerezo cy’igihe kirekire cyakomeje guhatira abagore kwishimira ubuzima binyuze gusa mu gushaka no kuba ababyeyi, bikaba bitanga urubuga rwo kongera gutekereza ku mahitamo y’umugore no kuyaha agaciro aho kugendera ku gitutu cya sosiyete.
